To Love the Rose is to Be Gentle

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Have you ever thought about how beautiful the way a rose lives is, how it grows and how it keeps itself alive?

Yes, we’re talking about roses, especially red roses, my favorite flowers. You know, so many people love roses, right? And I’m just one of the many people out there…

I love how each petal slowly blooms into a beautiful flower. A rose always seems brave when it shows its beauty, like it’s effortlessly confident just by being itself. And its color… so pretty and bold. I love how its red stands out from everything around it. It just makes the whole flower look even more beautiful

But is that really all the charm a rose has?

There’s one more thing about roses that is just as charming as their appearance. Maybe before, you loved them for how they looked. But now, you might fall even deeper for the strength they carry. This kind of beauty is different, it comes not from their appearance, but from their courage to protect what they have..

The beauty of a rose with thorns.

These two kinds of beauty might be very different, but together they become whole. The petals shine with gentle beauty, while the thorns are captivating for their strength and resilience. They dare to protect the rose from anyone who might try to harm it..

Does the rose become less beautiful because it has thorns?

I used to think the thorns ruined the beauty of roses. But as I grew older, I realized they aren’t a problem at all. The thorns exist to protect the rose, to remind anyone who truly loves it to handle it gently, so the thorns won’t hurt you.

If you love the rose, you need to learn to treat it with care, attention, and awareness. The thorns remind you that just because you admire something, just because you enjoy its beauty, it doesn’t give you the right to handle it recklessly.

So why do we think we have to choose? Why must we decide between being strong or being beautiful? We can live like the rose, can’t we?

We don’t have to choose. We can be both, strong and beautiful, just like the rose.

The beauty you and everyone possess is a blessing. It’s not meant to be destroyed, but to be protected, cared for, and respected. No one has the right to ruin it in the name of love. If you truly love someone, you learn not only how to show your love, but also how to show respect. Love is not about breaking someone; it’s about accepting and appreciating them with awareness and sincerity.

Protecting yourself is not strange. Everyone has the right to do it. So why do we feel guilty for defending ourselves? Why does taking care of ourselves feel wrong? Roses and their thorns are never afraid to be brave. They are brave to be beautiful, and brave to protect themselves.

Maybe we can live a little more like the rose, not afraid to show our beauty, and not afraid to protect our own life. You are valuable, and your life deserves to be guarded. You are beautiful as you are, and your life deserves to be treated with kindness, respect, and wisdom.

The rose whispers this to me: you don’t have to fear being beautiful, and you don’t have to apologize for protecting yourself. You are still beautiful… not only when you appear soft and gentle, but also when you are brave and strong. The rose knows this side of you exists to protect you, to remind you that you deserve love and respect.

I’ve always been amazed by how nature gives meaning to life. It feels like a quiet reminder to keep living, to keep growing into a better version of ourselves each day. I hope you, I, and everyone out there can be a little braver in protecting the life and beauty we carry within.

You are worthy, and you deserve kindness. You matter, and you deserve to be valued.

Don’t let anyone walk over you. Take care of your worth and the goodness you hold. Don’t be afraid to grow fully, to become the best version of yourself. You have the right to stand up when you need to. You have the right to speak out and protect the values that shape your life.

Source: Medium/sky ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗

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