Everyone has their own struggles and own problem

I never believe that other people’s lives are completely perfect or without struggles. I always think that every person carries their own burden, which is why I don’t easily admire or envy those who seem to live extraordinary, glamorous, or wealthy lives. Because behind every life, no matter how beautiful it may look from the outside, there are always flaws, gaps, and hardships.

Think about wealthy people for a moment. I can’t guarantee that their lives are as good as they appear on social media. No matter how luxurious, there are always things they hide and battles they fight silently within themselves.

Sometimes my friends say that being born into a rich family must be easy, but I never think like that. Because I know, even in a luxurious life, there can be an empty space.

The truth is nothing about being human is easy. Everyone has their own struggles. That’s why we should never try to be someone else or constantly compare ourselves with others who seem to have “more.” Deep down, we all know that life is a long journey of becoming, of finding out who we truly are. Every person carries strengths and weaknesses, storms and scars, that we may never see.

We never truly know people. Exactly—we know nothing about the battles they face. So stop thinking that other people’s lives are better, happier, or more fun than yours. Because what “fun” means to them, or what “good” means to them, is something you don’t know.

They are simply living their own loves and so should you. Don’t waste your time being a couch potato who only cares about other people’s lives without thinking about what you truly want to be, what you want to create, what you want to be remembered for, and what you want to achieve. Don’t get trapped in a victim mindset, telling yourself your life is miserable. Honey, everyone’s life is miserable in some way. The difference is, some people choose to build a positive mindset and outlook instead of feeding their energy with negativity.

In this crazy world, don’t let yourself go crazy too. You need logic, clarity, and self-control. That’s the way to reclaim your power.

Just look at Indonesia now prices keep rising, the government, especially the parliament, is favored, while our leaders act irresponsibly. This world can be cruel enough with people hurting and killing each other you don’t need to destroy or kill yourself too. Don’t belittle yourself.

Are you afraid of what others will think of you? Afraid that they won’t love you? Honey, don’t you see even our Prophet Muhammad once faced people who wanted to kill him for spreading Islam. So what do you expect from ordinary humans?

Of course, some people will dislike you and try to hurt you. But that doesn’t mean you should live according to their wishes.

Remember this: you are the only person you truly have. No one thinks about you the way you think about yourself. What matters most is the story you keep telling yourself.