This is for you who survived this year

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I’m sorry you’ve had such a bad year

This is for those of us who thought this year was the year we could celebrate something in life. The year of getting the job we wanted, becoming the person we promised we would be, living the plan we had in our heads, and hoping for the good plot twist to happen in our lives.

But it didn’t happen like that. The year passed, and the plot twist we hoped for never arrived. The plans stayed plans. The road was still rough as always. The version of life we imagined still felt as far away as ever.

We stayed in the same place we no longer wanted, and still watched everything move forward while we felt left behind. Some dreams were still unfinished, and felt so heavy. And spent the nights staring at the ceiling, wondering if we had chosen the wrong path in life.

I want to say, that’s okay. It’s okay if we didn’t meet the expectations we set for ourselves. It’s okay if we didn’t get the job we thought was supposed to change something big in our lives. Or not having everything we begged for finally happened.

Because maybe life isn’t that easy. Maybe life isn’t as simple as getting what we want or becoming someone we planned to be. Maybe it’s about what we learn while we’re stuck in between.

And maybe the twist was us all along. It was never about the things we didn’t manage to do, the job, the person we supposed become by now. Maybe the twist is that we’re still here after a year full of lessons we never imagined. The year didn’t give us what we wanted, and tested us in ways we never asked for, but we didn’t stop. It didn’t end us.

Maybe surviving this year is the plot twist. Going through this year without getting exactly what we wanted and entering the new year is the best surprise for us. We survived, learned, waited, and tried, and still doing it again is another level of everything we hoped for. And maybe that’s enough, for now.

Maybe our achievement was never meant to be obvious or something that we could celebrate loudly

So this is for you. For us who ended the year still in the same place, unfinished, who feel left behind, tired, or still unsure of tomorrows. For us, who didn’t get the ending we hoped for and who didn’t get the life we wanted this year.

It’s okay if we end the year without answers, without a big achievement to celebrate. The year may not give us what we wanted, but it’s not the end of our story. We’re still in the middle of it. And what matters is that we are still breathing, learning, trying, and surviving.

Source: Medium/Yellowbeee°•°

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